Meet The Team

Hi all, I'm Bev, vice chair of PAACT and like with all the volunteers & committee I have lived experience of autism & associated conditions. Mine is as a mum and granny of autistic children (and adult), ADHD and sensory processing disorder. I strongly believe that all children and young people are unique and it's about getting to know each and every one as their unique self that unlocks the key to what is right for them as individuals and their families. Trying to navigate the maze is so difficult it's always easier with someone else by your side and as a whole that's what we aim to achieve.

My name is Melissa Lacey and I am the PAACT Secretary. I have lived experience of ASD with a PDA profile, ADD, ARFID, Dyspraxia, generalised anxiety and SPD, with my teenage son. I have a special interest in low demand parenting and all things home education. I truly believe all children thrive and learn best when their anxiety is much lower, more manageable and they are ready to learn in what they are interested in. Learning takes many different forms and thinking outside the box is vital when helping and supporting our children and young adults, whether it be education, friendships, social skills, life skills, communication and relationships.

I have been involved with Autism for the last 17 years when my son received a diagnosis of Pathological Demand Avoidance at the age of 9, and a few years later when my daughter was diagnosed at age 15. I have been to every workshop, training days and conferences that were available to me to increase my knowledge in this new world. The biggest and most important thing I did was to get involved with our Local support group PAACT. 10 years later I find myself chairing the group and changing the direction the group was going in, due to the reduced services available for families. My motivation to help families understand what we need to do as parents comes from the mistakes and struggles I went through due to lack of support or direction. The biggest lesson I have taken from my journey over the last 17 years is there is no answer to get your children to not have a meltdown, to fit into society, not to worry, to accept that I had to change inorder to reduce the pressure I was putting on my children, which in turn reduced their meltdowns, reduced their pressure and they started fitting into society in their own way. My aim is to share my experiences with you from a parents point of view while providing information from professionals that I feel will be useful and helpful to you.

Hi my name is Zoe I have been part of PAACT for a number of years. Being mum to an autistic child is hard work, but is also so rewarding. PAACT is a great support offering a wide knowledge and understanding. I’m proud to be a part of this group.